Be wary of writing about all your troubles to your friends. As you magnify the problem in your mind and in the minds of your friends, you’ll increase the size of the problem. It will be multiplied and that’s not what you are trying to achieve.
Stop talking about your troubles to others and stop putting anything negative in writing. When you reverse this process and secretly write out how you want these matters to be, your difficulties will begin to diminish for the first time in a long time.
Remember to secretly write out each day how you wish the day to be and how you wish your financial, business, health or other matters to turn out that day, in contrast to how they appear. Not only does this help you mind to accept the improvement of your desire, but it as though your written-out desire goes out into the ethers and is subconsciously tuned in on and everyone concerns begins to cooperate and help.
Even though it may seem to be a mystical method, if it produces practical and helpful results for your, why not give it a try?
It is so important not to spread negative things - don’t talk about what’s befallen you to others. Even though they may mean well, their dwelling on your sad state will give it energy and multiply your problems instead of adding positive energy to help you get better (physically) or get more financially sound or whatever it is you desire. And don’t tell them your woes and ask them to think positive. Many people will not be able to do that even though they may want to and they’ll start by saying “Poor Terrie, I hope she gets better from her xyz problems. I’ll be thinking positively for her” - see what happened there - they gave the negative energy to my xyz problem without even knowing it. So, the moral of the story is to just keep things to yourself and your improvement will happen much more quickly and with less effort on your part.