We would like you to release the word "achieve" or "earn" from your vocabulary and from your understanding, altogether; and we would like you to replace those words with the word "allow". You're wanting to allow your Well-being, not achieve it. It's not something that you need to earn. All you have to do is decide what it is you would like to experience, and then allow it in order to achieve it. It isn't something you have to struggle for or try for. You are all worthy beings. You are deserving of this Well-being.
Excerpted from the workshop: Detroit, MI on July 08, 2000
This is a very important concept and I'd like you to take a look at your language (verbally and internally) this week. Once you realize the reality of this it will release so much stress from you life because it's that feeling that you have to strive and work hard to get something or somewhere that puts the pressure on you. Along with the pressure comes the feeling of lack. You wouldn't be trying to "earn" something if you weren't missing it in your life.
Remember that you have everything you need - the Universe has produced it for you as soon as you proclaimed that it was something you wanted. Once you determined that there was something you wanted, the Universe brought it to your door. The only thing you have to do is open the door and allow it to come in. Although this quote refers to well-being, it applies to everything in your life.
Pay attention to the things you think about having to achieve or earn. Set your internal watchdog to identify these words in your thoughts. When you do find them creeping into your conscious mind, take control and immediately change the wording to "allow".
See if this makes any difference and let us know by putting your results in the comments box.