If you are being swept into some current that is not comfortable, or not in harmony with your desire, you must remember that couldn't happen if you weren't offering a vibration that matched it in some way. If you're vibrating differently from that, you're not having that experience
Excerpted from the workshop: San Diego, CA on August 03, 1997
This is something that's hard for most people to accept when they initially enter the study and practice of metaphysics. It's pretty easy to accept that you've created the good things in your life. You can hold your head up high, stick your chest out and say "aha, look what I created!"
But then when you see things that are not going quite so well, you want to put the blame somewhere else. It's hard to accept the fact that you have created these bad circumstances and that you brought cruddy things into your life. I mean, after all, who would do such a thing?
Release the idea of blame. Just accept what this quote says - it couldn't be happening if you weren't offering a vibration that matched it in some way. Instead of beating yourself up about it (or worse yet, trying to find someplace/someone to take responsibility for it), simply stop and look at what's happening. If it's not something you want to continue to happen, then you can start changing your vibration - slowly but surely. You may have to let the momentum run its course for a while before things change but often that's easier than trying to buck the current and swim upstream. Let yourself experience what's happening and see what you can learn from it. It will fizzle out and then you can start to move up the emotional scale in the direction you want to head.
This week, take a look around you and see how things are going. If they aren't the way you'd like them to go, admit that you created this and that you can, therefore, change that creation and transform it into a great experience.
Let us know what you've discovered.