"The qualities that you seek in a relationship will be important to you and it is important that you know what you want in a significant other so that you can use the Law of Attraction productively to attract your ideal relationship." ~ Frank Mangano
We always tell you to make certain that you've made a list of the qualities and characteristics you DO want in a significant other. Don't leave things to chance. Make certain that you actually use this wonderful Universal Law (the Law of Attraction). You use it by focusing and concentrating on what it is you do want - from a positive perspective - not what you do NOT want. The best way to do that is to make that list. And if you find yourself saying something like "I sure don't want a guy who snores", change it around to "I want a man who sleeps soundly and quietly".
Do this with everything in your life! Make a list of what you want. Actually write it down so that there is more energy put into the desires. Then you can read that list over and over again and modify it as necessary - add to it, change the wording, etc. Make sure that it's positive and an actual reflection of what you want. Sometimes reading what we wrote later is very helpful. You might go "what did I mean by that" or "whoa, that's not what I really want" or something else.
Plus, when you read it over and over, it gets more embedded in your mind so there's more there to focus on!