The 2nd and 3rd Agreement

I talked about being impeccable in your word.

Today it’s the second agreement - “Don’t Take Things Personally” and the third agreement - “Don’t Make Assumptions”.

If you know you just want to register, do it now

Anne spent an entire hour last week on “Don’t Take Things Personally”. But basically it’s that nothing that others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. If you want to purchase the replay of that teleseminar, contact me at GettingUnstuck @

You all know that Anne puts a different spin on EVERYTHING so, no matter how much you know

about the Four Agreements, you ought to sign up for this teleseminar. After all, it’s only


The third agreement is “Don’t make assumptions”. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

We make assumptions about what others are doing or thinking - we take it personally - then we blame them and react by sending emotional poison with our word. That’s why whenever we make assumptions, we’re asking for problems.

When we make an assumption, we misunderstand, we take it personally, and we end up creating a whole big drama for nothing.

Because we are afraid to ask for clarification, we make assumptions, and believe we are right about the assumptions; then we defend our assumptions and try to make someone else wrong. It is always better to ask questions than to make an assumption, because assumptions set up for suffering.

We only see what we want to see and hear what we want to hear. We don’t perceive things the way they are. Because we don’t understand something, we make an assumption about the meaning.

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**********Call details********************

Day: Thursday

Date: 5 October 2006

Time: 5 p.m. pacific, 7 p.m. central, 8 p.m. eastern

Topic: The Four Agreements

Length: 60 minutes

Cost: $15.00


Can’t attend in person, register anyway and you’ll get access to the replay.

Better still, use the portability of our product, buy the MP3 player and have it forever.

Want to pay by check? Email Dr. Terrie Wurzbacher.

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