Still working on your Success List? Having problems, perhaps, figuring out what you want to be or what qualities you want to embrace? Take a look at this system and see if it will help you with your planning. January should be a month of preparation. Ideally December should be that month but everyone is so busy with the holidays (although this should be a part of the holidays) that they don't have time for anything else. So, continue to use January to figure out where you are and where you want to go.
One of the best ways to take a look at the things in your life that you wish to change this to look at others around you. Try this exercise. Write down a list of 3 to 5 people depending on how much time you have that are in your life right now. Next to each name list of qualities that you like about that person, and the qualities that you don't like about that person. Another way to do this is to list 3 to 5 people that you don't like that are in your life right now. And on a separate list you can list 3 to 5 other people that are in your life that you do like.
Regardless of how you decide to do it you now have a list of qualities that you can take a look at. How many of these qualities are qualities that you see in yourself ones who really hone in and force yourself to take a deep look at yourself.
People come into your life for a reason. Once you identify the qualities about these people you've attracted you can either work to eliminate the bad qualities in yourself that these people are mirror and; or you can work to even augment the good qualities that you see in yourself.
Remember that we are in control of our lives. We're in control of how we behave, what our attitudes are like, what our thoughts reflect, and most of all what other people see in us. So use the reflection of others in your life to help you mould who you want to be. in fact this is a good way to create a checklist for yourself. Use this checklist in the daily weekly or monthly basis to see where you've come in your goals of improving certain qualities in your life. You may not have to develop qualities. You may just have to refine them and it's a lot easier there already and you but you just have to make their manifestation better.
I write this from experience because it happened to me more than one time. Often a new person will come into my life and it's a person that I'm not ecstatic exactly ecstatic with. When I write down a list of persons qualities and then I'm very honest with myself, I see myself as if I'm looking in a mirror. however this is been the most important time of my life because it gives me the opportunity to examine qualities that other people see in me, and change the things I want people to see. What's funny is as soon as you adequately change or modify those qualities that person begins to fade from your life. If you look back over your life you can see how this is probably been the case with you if you've paid attention to what that person supposed to mean in your life.
Just as a reminder list 3 to 5 people in your life and write down the good qualities in the bad qualities you see in them. Take a deep look at yourself and determine if these are qualities that you have. If they are to choose to keep them what you want to change. Start working on yourself and then repeat the process and perhaps 3 to 6 months. See enough either that person is no longer in your life or perhaps that person is changed as well.