As there is 1 1/2 more weeks left in January 2012, I continue to point out things that might have derailed you from your 2012 Success List. If you make it through January still on track, you'll have a great chance of accomplishing your "successes".
Emmet Fox wrote about "The Dictaphone" and I think that's worth discussing today.
He proposed an imaginary experiment. Suppose that without your knowledge an invisible dictaphone was strapped to your shoulders the first thing tomorrow morning. You carry it with you all day long and every word you said was recorded. Tomorrow the recording was played back so you could hear every single word that you said. If you're an average human being you'll probably be a bit embarrassed. Think what would happen if the dictaphone also recorded every THOUGHT you had as well as every word you spoke.
Your subconscious mind absorbs EVERYTHING you think and say. Remember what I like to say "You are what you thought", not really what you think. It's what went into your subconscious before now that has molded your being and experience.
I emphasize that you need to monitor all your words - both spoken and thought. This is one of the most common reasons for "failure" in achieving your "Successes". You set out with great intentions and do the groundwork of denials and affirmations but then go right back to your old ways of thinking and acting - using the same old phrases and thoughts - many of which are downright negative or have negative connotations. That will derail you as surely as quitting your pursuit. That's why I'm emphasizing the "Words of Wisdom" series of posts. See what phrases we use in life on a daily basis, analyze what they mean and then wipe them from your vocabulary.
There is no way around it. You have to pay attention to what you're saying and thinking. I suggest you get a small notebook you can carry in your pocket or purse and write down everything you hear and think as it happens. Then each night review this list and note the ones you want to eliminate and also think about the reason you need to do that. This will help you identify other phrases and thoughts you want to get rid of too. Things such as "I'm fed up", "I'm sick and tired", "You're killing me", "I can't afford to...." etc.
Work on this for a week and see what changes in your life.