What are Denials & How Do They Fit In?

Ok, now that you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, now what?

Well, it’s time to start changing them and turning them into positive beliefs.

The way we start doing that is with denials.

Denials are considered the face washing, or clearing and cleansing process. “If you’re building a house, you have to clear the land first.” This is the purpose of denials. You’re clearing the land. Denial is the first practical step toward wiping out of our minds the mistaken beliefs of a lifetime. We declare not to be true a thing that seems to be true.

Do these denials for a week. Emma Curtis Hopkins, who is one of the greatest of the early teachers, had her students do denials for one month before they went into a new class. Believe me, it pulls things out of the subconscious that you don’t know are there.

It pulls things out like anger, hostility, resentment, from the time you were very small until now. It pulls out things that you wish you hadn’t been upset about at the time like the thoughts, feelings, and anxieties you had that could have come from something way in the past.

Some of the denials that we use are, “There is no anger in me. Therefore, I do not attract people who are angry. There is no hostility in me. Therefore, I do not attract people with hostility. There is no fear in me. Therefore, I do not attract people who are fearful.”

We don’t know what is in our subconscious. This week I want you to do the denials. Read them over preferably twice a day, once in the morning and once at night. See what that brings up out of your subconscious.

I don’t want you to do anything about that except look at it and say, “Oh my goodness, I didn’t know that was there. Thank you for showing it to me.” At that point, you can let it go. You realize that you’ve been holding on to something that did not concern you, that did not belong in your life and has just been sitting in this big sea of stuff in your subconscious.

Suppose you grew up believing that the sun moved around the earth, and someone now showed you that the opposite is true.  You would accept the demonstrated truth, but still, at every sunrise or sunset, the old idea would come up, seeming almost too real to be disputed.  The only way to cleanse your mind of the old impression would be by repeatedly denying the old beliefs.  You would say over and over to yourself, whenever the subject came up in your mind, “This is not true.  The sun does not move around the earth; the earth moves around the sun.” Eventually, the sun would only seem to be moving.
Similarly, it appears that our bodies and circumstances control our thoughts, but the opposite is true.  Our thoughts control our bodies and our circumstances.  So, if you repeatedly deny a false or unhappy condition, it loses its power to make you unhappy.

Remember – Denials are considered to be the cleansing mechanism, or, the method of rejecting opinions and/or negative beliefs that prevent our desired good from coming to us.

Denials for use the first week.

I am not afraid.

I am not angry

I am not poor

I am not sick

I am not insecure

I do not believe in  suffering

I do not believe in hard work

I do not believe in poverty

I do not believe in struggle

I do not accept limitation of any kind

I do not accept other peoples negative beliefs

I do not  accept lack in any area of my life

 

Terrie

How to Uncover Your Limiting Beliefs

How do you discover what your limiting beliefs are?

You have to find out what your limiting beliefs are in order to move forward and put the law of attraction and the remainder of the universal laws into play.

Write down what you want.

Write down what you don’t want.

Write down what you believe about money (e.g. “you have to work hard to make a lot of money”, “rich people are greedy”, “time is money”) – write down what you were taught – for example – my father repeatedly told me that I’d never be any good with money. That was an extremely limiting belief for me.

Write down what you believe about relationships – so you believe that all your relationships are doomed to fail or that you’re doomed to be alone; or perhaps, you don’t “deserve” to be in a loving mutual relationship.

Write down what you believe about health. Do certain things “run” in your family? Do you figure you’re going to get the flu every year?

When you’ve written down all your beliefs, look them over. If there are positive ones (such as “I don’t have to work hard to make money. Things come easily to me. I’m a quick learner, etc) then these are great beliefs you have and are to be cultivated even more.

However, if you find you have beliefs that are keeping you from reaching your goals, then these are the ones you want to work on. Circle them on your lists.

Later, rewrite them on a separate piece of paper and you’ll be able to work through them with denials (we’ll cover them tomorrow).

Now you have a beginning to determining AND conquering your limiting beliefs.

Affirmations from The Psychology of Self-fulfilling Prophecies

Here are some affirmations from The Psychology of Self-fulfilling Prophecies. Pick one a week (the one that strikes you the most or one in an area you really want to concentrate on), write it on a 3×5 card and say it over and over again all through the week!

AFFIRMATIONS

Prophecies for Personal Growth

1. My superconscious mind elevates my ever increasing potential. I open my mind to receive the ideas, the people, the accomplishments, the new friends, and I joyfully do the work I came to do.

2. I expect great things from the universe and the universe helps me to accomplish great things.

Prophecies for permanent health
1. I am lifted to new heights as every cell of my body is rejuvenated, transformed, and adjusted to its perfect expression of health. This action has already begun and is divinely completed right now.

2. My body is filled with the light of health. I am a glorious example of perfection.

Prophecies for loving relationships
1. I am cherished and pampered by the universe. I receive miraculous benefits.

2. I immerse myself in the friendly energy of life, joy, peace, love, and my gratitude overflows.

Prophecies for increased income
1. I joyfully share my own special talents and I reap enormous blessings.

2. My mind is open to thousands of businesses and people who are my channels of income. I receive gratefully.

Prophecies for permanent safety
1. Everywhere I am is safety to all. My safety expands to cover all people and all things. I join the Light of the world as I move over the planet to create peace everywhere.

2. The Spirit of Love goes before me to remove any and all things that interfere with my safety.

Prophecies for peace of mind
1. I am so filled with peace of mind that nothing can disturb me. I am safe, protected, surrounded with love, I experience wonderful health and I radiate serenity.

2. My peace of mind determines my receiving. I love my inner spirit unconditionally.

Prophecies for joyful surprises
1. I love wonderful surprises. Good events, gifts, money, flow to me as I receive the glory of the universe which is even now being poured into my experience.

2. I am always treated like royalty with courtesy, admiration, joy, generosity, love and overwhelming gratitude.

Prophecies for happiness
1. I am a radiant light of joy bringing life into every heart and mind. I love being a stimulator of the activity of success within all people everywhere.

2. Joy overflows within my heart and reaches out to bless everyone who is in my mental and physical reach. I think and they feel my touch.

Prophecies for Inspiration
1. I receive new and wonderful ideas for me to do. They are always easy, financially productive, and come with the effective people who are to assist me in getting them to the public.

2. I awaken every morning with wealth in my world, joy in my life, health in my body, peace in my soul, love in my heart and inspiration in my mind. My gratitude overflows.

EXTRA AFFIRMATIONS
I am the consciousness of millionaires and I accept my true place now.

I feel immediate transformation in the glorious experience of my life.

My friends and family recognize the dramatic changes in my attitude, my wealth, and my peace…. and are happy for me.

I hear frequent words that insure other people have seen my glorious change to total success.

My integrity is acknowledged and praised by every person I am in contact with.

Self-fulfilling Prophecies

A self-fulfilling prophecy is an opinion or beliefs that creates expectancy or possible expectancy of an event occurring in the future. 

There are many examples of this:

Statistics (which we all know can be manipulated anyway you want) such as the incidence of diabetes is on the rise, the divorce rate is increasing.

Inheritance, family history of different diseases, alcoholism, behavior, relationships.

Media influence: inaccuracy of media including medical ads – remember – they are just that – ads – they are not there to help educate you about the disease process – they are trying to convince you, to sell you on their product. Also in the media – notice the constant reruns of negative news.

Financial predictions: stock market news, family related fears (the depression era for example)

You can (and should) always say “That is not my truth.” and follow it by “I don’t believe that that kind of information affects me.”

Do not use the words “always” and “never” unless they reflect  something positive.

Note that the prophecy can be positive or negative! That’s so important to understand. We are in charge of our lives.

Praise is a prophecy:

– Prophesy that you are lucky

– Prophesy that you are happy

– Prophesy that you have a constantly growing income

– Prophesy that you receive wonderful divine surprises “Every day I receive a divine surprise.”

An opinion or belief, once recognized, can be easily changed through denial, affirmation and common sense.

– Change the negative through denials

– Increase the positive

– Only discuss the present and future (you are so good at ……) (you’re getting so good at……)

To recognize a negative opinion/belief AND DO NOTHING gives greater strength to the negative.

– The more you know, the more you’re responsible for

– The stronger your understanding of spiritual/universal law, the faster it works…in either a positive or a negative way.

– A negative prophesy works just as quickly as a positive one (and sometimes faster)

– You must learn NOT to react to other people’s opinions, discussions, prophecies, etc. even if they are the “experts”

Every thought, word, and action goes into your subconscious and reaffirms as you believe (about yourself, your health, relationships, money, etc).

The more emotion you put into it, the stronger it (the prophecy) gets.

You shouldn’t “just accept” what other people tell you.

Denial: “Other people’s thoughts, words or actions never affect me in a negative way.”

Affirmation:

“I surround myself with the Christ light which prevents all negative thoughts aimed at me and strengthens all positive thoughts coming to me.”

“I dissolve all ties between me and anyone who has negative opinions of me.”

Enjoy

Terrie