Are You Just A Spectator In Your Own Game of Life?

iStock_000013428675XSmallNow that my 30 days of Inspiration is over (or is it “are over”? Oh well), ask yourself where you fit in all this talk of inspiration, courage and determination. Are you just a spectator in your own game of life? Or are you on the playing field – actively participating and making things happen – influencing your own outcome?

If you are just a spectator AND don’t want to be (sometimes it’s ok to watch and learn but most of the time we want to be an active part of what’s happening in our lives), then we need to look at the beliefs AND the emotions behind why you’re just spectating and NOT making things happen.

I know for me it was hard to grasp the concept of beliefs and that’s what I’ve run across with other folks too. But once I did, man did it make a big difference. Then, when I coupled it with the idea of how much emotions guide where we’re going (and where we’ve been), it almost feels like a no-win situation. Until you realize that you can change all of that. You do have control over both your emotions and your beliefs. If you’re thinking that that’s not true, then guess what? You have what we call “limiting beliefs” – things that are holding you back and keeping you from achieving everything you ever wanted.

I’m going to be talking about limiting beliefs and transforming them into empowering beliefs over the next month or maybe more depending on where we all go from here. My goal is to show you how to empower yourself, how to identify where you’re holding yourself back and then, most importantly, what to do about it.

Remember that if you’re on this site, there’s a fantastic chance you understand or at least know about the Law of Attraction. Bottom line – we create our own reality whether we do it consciously or not. You can’t just take credit for the good things in your life that you “intentionally” manifested. You have to take responsibility for EVERYTHING in your life because you brought it all in there.

“Me?” you mutter. “Why on earth would I want to create this bankruptcy or this divorce? You’re out of your mind if you think I did that on purpose”.

No one is saying “on purpose” because that implies a definite intention and unfortunately if we had learned about our intentions (and how powerful they can be) a long time ago, we probably wouldn’t be in this boat right now. But we attract what we are in vibrational synch with (bad grammar or not it’s true). So, if you grew up in an era or a family that had financial problems or was always talking about not having enough or being in debt or “how are we going to pay these bills” (which equals lack), this is what your body began to vibrate with because that’s all you knew. So you now have this long-ago engrained thought/feeling/emotion/belief that you don’t and can’t have enough.

Remember that a belief is just a thought you keep thinking over and over again.

Beliefs are generally divided into (or categorized into) limiting and empowering beliefs. Which would you rather have – a belief that holds you back or a belief that lets you know that you CAN actually have everything you’ve ever wanted?

I know the answer for me – I want everything I’ve ever wanted. And you know what? I CAN have it…and so can you. We just need to work on identifying and transforming those limiting beliefs! And that’s what we’ll do over the next 30 plus days.

Start writing down what you believe in….or what you think you can have and what you think you can’t have…stay tuned for more

Terrie

FAVE is here!

What the heck is FAVE?

Focus

Attention

Vibrations

Emotions

So what does all that mean?

It means that we are vibrational beings and that we attract to us that which has similar vibrations to what we are experiencing. That is the essence of the Law of Attraction – which is ALWAYS working no matter what you say. Many people only celebrate the Law of Attraction when something happens in their life that they are happy about. But the Law of Attraction has worked all your life no matter what has come into it. One of the first things we’ll do in FAVE is to look at that concept and claim responsibility for everything we’ve created – even if we didn’t know we were creating it.

Then I’m going to show you and guide you into becoming a deliberate creator – you CAN be/do/have anything you want in life! And I’m going to help you begin your journey there.

It’s actually fairly simple but you need help. A belief (which is really what rules us) is just a pattern of thought – a thought you’ve repeated over and over again – it’s NOT the Gospel, it’s not the truth. Science has proven that over  and over again. After all Christopher Columbus proved it a very long time ago – people believed that the earth was flat. But it isn’t and now we know that that belief was wrong. People changed their beliefs after he proved that it wasn’t flat.

Check out more on my Getting Unstuck, LLC Coaching page for FAVE

Terrie

“Believe It or Not” – Webinar Replay

This was my first Webinar and thanks to Dr. Jeanette Cates I made  it through unscathed.

I want you to have the opportunity to view the replay so here it is. Make sure you watch through to the end because not only do I give you 3 techniques you can use every day (multiple times a day) but I’m introducing the F.A.V.E. system to you too. I’ll be writing more about that tomorrow and Monday because the program starts Tuesday night so check it out. It’s a flagship product that you won’t want to miss (oh, and the first 5 people who sign up get a free 1/2 hour coaching session with me). This is new material for us to present so get in early and see how quickly you can change your life – I did (see details in the webinar). Enjoy!

Terrie

Believe it or NOT! Transform your beliefs and transform your life

 What is a belief – according to Abraham, a belief is nothing more than a chronic pattern of thought. Think about that for a minute. That makes perfect sense. Where do our beliefs come from? Usually it’s from our parents, our teachers, our religious leaders or even our other relatives – did you brother convince you there were boogy men in the closet at night? If he did, you really believed that didn’t you? That’s a belief!

Most of us do not even know what our beliefs are. But we sure are quick to say “That Law of Attraction thing is really bogus. How could anyone believe in that? Look how cruddy my life is….” and on and on. This chronic pattern of thought, this habit, it’s what we base our thoughts, feelings and actions on day in and day out.  Most of the time we’re not even aware of what we believe and worse yet, we’re not even aware of how these beliefs affect our thoughts and feelings and therefore our every day life.

Some people have learned great beliefs and are extremely successful in all aspects of their life.

Some have excellent beliefs and are extremely successful in one or two areas of their life.

Some have beliefs that have taken them to levels of despair.

Where have your beliefs taken you? Are you happy in all areas of your life? Are things going the way you’d like them to be going? Do you have everything you want in life?

If you don’t have everything you want or aren’t happy, then you have limiting beliefs and they are what’s holding you back.

But the great news is that you can alter these beliefs and you can transform your life completely. You really can have everything you want in life.

Join me on a webinar on Thursday 14 June 2012 at 7 pm central time. I am going to show you about these limiting beliefs AND let you know about a coaching program I am having to help people identify their limiting beliefs and transform them in a 4 week course!

Sign up for the webinar to learn more.  Register here: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/452545522

See you Thursday as you begin the journey to a powerful, new life!

Terrie

Words of Wisdom

This week’s phrase is “Hurting for money”.

Have you heard this? People who don’t have enough money sometimes will say this. But what are you really saying?

“Hurting” = pain

“For Money” – Getting money

So, this tells your subconscious mind that you have to have pain in order to get money.

This contradicts all we teach. You do NOT have to hurt or experience pain in order to get money. Prosperity (in all fields, not just wealth) is easy and is yours by Divine Right!

See if this is your belief. Were you brought up thinking you have to struggle and work really hard and have pain in order to be prosperous.

If this is buried inside you, create your denials (such as “there is no pain in or around my financial affairs” or “I do not have to hurt in order to get money” etc). Say these denials for at least a week and see what else comes up (and create denials for whatever comes up).

Then use your affirmations after that. If you can’t come up with a personalized one use “Wealth and prosperity is mine by Divine Right and it comes to me easily and quickly”.

You do deserve everything and can have everything. We just have to peel that onion away.

Terrie